10 Things Guys Should Know About Girls

  1. Girls like to be taken care of. Even the simplest call or text just to remind her to take her lunch despite her busy day at her work is totally appreciated. Or moreover, you join her for lunch or dinner despite your busy schedule. When she’s sick, she’d expect you to be there for her. Visit her and buy her medicines and nice hot soup. That will surely brighten up her day.
  2. No matter what a girl said she’d want, she wants flowers. It’s easier if you’d know her favourite flower, as most girls don’t have a particular favourite. Surprise her with flowers during her big day; on her exhibit, volleyball championship, her birthday, her promotion, or just because it’s Sunday. No matter what she told you she wants, trust me, she wants flowers.
  3. When she’s mad at you and you’re having a fight, try to be patient with her. Never raise your voice on her or she’ll consider it as a threat. When she pushes you away and doesn’t like to be touched, don’t force her. Give her distance and after a minute or two try a little with her fingertips, or her knees or the loose strands of her hair and when she’s calmed down she’ll succumb to you. If she hangs up on you, call her back immediately. As most girls like to be pursued especially when they’re on a bad mood. Give it an hour or so and she’ll call you back apologizing for all the drama.
  4. We may live in a modern day but she’ll like it if you treat her the old-fashioned way. Treat her well because she deserves it. Open doors for her or pull her chair before she sits down. Tell her “Bless you” when she sneezes or be the first to put food on her plate. When she says grace before meal, hold her hand and pray with her. This way she’ll know that you respect her faith.
  5. Love her friends. No matter how impossible it is to get along with them or how much they don’t like you, show her you’re extending the effort to be with them. Grab drinks or a bite with them, discover their affiliations or hobbies so next time you’d be able to do some pep talk with them. Admit it or not, her friends are one of the special keys to your successful relationship. Getting close with them will make your life much, much easier as the “boyfriend.”
  6. Show her your world. If she still has her guard up and it’s hard for her to let you in, just be patient with her, and slowly let her inside your world. This tells her it’s okay to be a part of something important. Introduce her to your family during a gathering. She’ll like it and she’ll feel special whenever she’s being introduced to your family as your girl especially to your mom. Invite her during your basketball game and introduce him to the guys. This way, she’ll be more at ease with whomever you’re accompanied with.
  7. Adore her. This is easy as ABC’s. If she asks if she looks fat in her dress, the immediate answer is “of course not” and if she does look fat in it, tell her “maybe it’s not your colour.” Works all the time. Most girls like to dress up because they want to be sashayed around especially with their guy. Compliment her shoes or her new nail polish that matches her dress. This simple gesture will brighten up her day. She’ll know it’s pambobola but she‘ll appreciate it anyway.
  8. Most girls are incredibly emotional. We cry over our favourite soap operas, romantic movies, favourite song, over a book, facing a problem, or when we’re having a fight, or just a random bad day. When you saw her crying, don’t freak out. Instead, offer her a cup of tea, or a  glass of water or even your handkerchief. Hold her, wipe her tears and tell her she still look pretty even when she cries. She may still be crying, but you’ll see a glint of smile in her eyes. Let her talk, let her cry, kiss her hair, kiss her hand and stay with her until she has calmed down. Women feels more vulnerable when they cry, and she’d appreciate it if you’d understand why she’s crying, how little or big deal it might be.
  9. Encourage her in her passion. Whether it’s an artwork she’s been working on for weeks or a manuscript she spent her sleepless nights for, or a big project she’s organizing for her company. Or simply her cooking or finishing her new book. Let her deal with her problems. When she has mentioned this to you, just listen. When she asked you for an advice, be honest to her and tell her what you think. You need to let her fix her own problems. This way she’ll learn how to spread her wings and be more independent. Just be with her through every step of the way.
  10. Tell her you love her. It may sound cliché or cheesy, but it wouldn’t hurt to tell her how you feel from time to time. Quote lines from a sonnet or a song for her. She might find it amusing but deep inside her heart, she’s already melting. When she asked you why you love her, tell her even the smallest details. Girls like it detailed. Tell her how you love her when she kinks her eyebrows when she’s trying to be cute, or how she sings along to her favourite song whenever it is being played on the radio, or how she looks sexy in red, or how she misses her parents but she won’t admit it or because of how much passion she puts in everything that she does. Tell her you love her over the phone, write a note and put it inside her pocket, while making love, against her lips, on her facebook wall, or just when you’re randomly driving around the city. Tell her you love her and mean every word of it.

38 comments on “10 Things Guys Should Know About Girls

  1. *smile … VERY great post … but I would suffocate if I had a man around me .. that did this all the time – and if a man do it for only pleasing me .. it’s not him and things will change for the worst later on.

    • make sense, but it’s good to see that a guy is making all these efforts just to please u, u know what I mean? 🙂 thanks though, but it’s kinda sad to know that a guy would suffocate you when he does these things.

      • Totally agree with you – but making efforts has to go both way and we, girls, aren’t very good on it either. I don’t believe that a guy that would do all that for me .. time after time is for real .. he would only do it to please me and that’s not what it’s about. Because what will happen is that he will not keep on doing it in the long run …

      • Yes, I also believe this works both ways. In order to keep the relationship strong, the couple must exercise give and take. 🙂 yyeeaaahhhh you’re right, most guys are just doing it in the first few months but then after a few years, they wouldn’t even care at all. haay boys will be boys. we sound like haters!!! HAHAHAAHHA

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