10 Things Girls Should Know About Guys

Since I just recently posted some helpful facts about what guys should know about girls, (http://iamkaicee.wordpress.com/2012/08/26/10-things-guys-should-know-about-girls/) then I think it’s just fair to do vice versa, right? After some research and random interviews (and basically based on my own experience) I hope the girls out there will find this information helpful. You might think that you know your guy 100%, trust me, there’s more that meets the eye.

  1. Guys like it straightforward. So ditch the “You know what..uhhmmm…nevermind.” Most girls take this the wrong way since most of us like to play guess what? game. He won’t understand what you mean or what you want unless you say so. It’s as simple as that; If you don’t like it, say so. If you like it, say so. If you don’t like him, just say so and don’t lead him on. If you left a conversation hanging, you’ll be surprised with how much information they are processing at the moment. Guys think too much, and you won’t be happy with their conclusion just because of the simple “uhhmmm… nevermind.” So avoid playing games with him because at the end of the day, you’ll be one who’s left annoyed of not having things done your way.
  2. Stop mentioning your ex or comparing him to your ex. Just because he’s already an ex-boyfriend doesn’t necessarily mean they won’t be insecure about him when you keep on mentioning his name, the resto-bar you went to, or any random information about him. No matter how good or bad way you ended things with that guy, just don’t. Most guys aren’t vocal about it, they would just ignore it from time to time but little did we know, they’re counting the number of times that ex’s name was brought up. Guys can be a little bit more competitive than girls so they tend to compete with your ex’s ghost over you. And most of the time, it’s not a good thing. And when you started comparing him to your ex, damn girl, consider yourself dead because you’ve just crossed the line.
  3. You can never change a guy. Sometimes we think that our purpose as the girlfriends is to change our guys’ behavior or character and they’ll be willing to do so because they love us. Wrong assumption, my friend. I’m not saying that guys cannot entirely change but don’t stay with him just because you think you can be the game-changer. He will in his own time and own way, don’t force it just guide him through it. Don’t let his shortcomings be the cause of your arguments all the time because it’ll just keep on getting worse. It’s either you leave him and look for a better guy or stay and accept him for who he is.
  4. Guys learn from experience not from chick flicks, romantic novels or dating articles that girls use as a reference. Don’t underestimate a guy’s observations because they learn from it. Unlike, us girls, who likes day-dreaming about our knight in shining armor and would sweep our feet off the floor, guys would rather listen to their friend’s unfortunate cheating experience or ask around about the best dish in the recently opened restaurant nearby for your next date. The only fantasies they have are “sex fantasies” and other than that, they base everything in reality and experiences, whether good or bad. So don’t be offended if the next time you mention something romantic and the only reaction you get from him is a timid smile, he’s just thinking of a more “possible” thing on how to surprise you.
  5. When a guy is hurt, he cries in front of you. Attached to a guy’s shadow is his ego and more often than not, hey would rather stick to it than lose his pride. It’s in their nature to have a feel of “macho” in them and sometimes its frustrating to see beyond that facade if they really do care. But when a guy cries, he is really hurting. When he cries over a big problem whether it’s family, personal, relationship or work related, it means the pain is too hard for his macho effect to handle. And you can say that a guy really trusts you that much for letting you see him in his most vulnerable state. When a guy cries in front of you, it’s like he’s showing you a whole different side of himself that most people doesn’t see. He’s showing you that he isn’t made of stone or hard muscle and that he too has a heart. So when that happens, just hold him or much better cry with him.
  6. When a guy says “NO” he means “NO.” No matter how arrogant or self-centered you think a guy is, when he likes a certain girl he would do immeasurable possibilities for her. But when the tide turns and he falls out of love or got fed up, when he says it’s over, take his word for it. When a guy begs a girl for another chance, we always tend to be merciful and compassionate because that’s one of women’s natural traits. It’s different with guys, he wouldn’t care how pretty or hot you think you are because when you’ve pushed him to his limits, he will be stern with his decisions and let go of you no matter how much he loved you.
  7. It’s 70% physical attraction, 20% personality, and 10% brains. It’s plain obvious, guys dig girls who are physically attractive. They prefer dating someone who they can brag about in front of their friends and be pleased to introduce to their moms. They won’t mind if you’re not the Summa Cum Laude in your batch or you have an inner bratinella within you, as long as you can keep them fulfilled and be able to feed their mouth-watering hunger for flesh, then you’re in for a long ride. Let’s be real, sister. A guy won’t even look at you twice if you don’t flash him your sweetest smile and flaunt your gym/beach bod.
  8. A guy usually daydreams about what’s underneath your clothes. Before, there’s a saying “The best way to a man’s heart is through his appetite.” It’s true, but don’t forget the next best saying “The best way to a man’s heart is though his pants and keep him begging for more.” Honestly, if you’d ask the guys to chose between food or sex, 99% would prefer naked ladies in a sandwich. LOL funny, but true! Ladies, try not to be offended by this because it’s just how the man-world works. And accept the fact that even when you’ve given him the best, most sizzling hot and mind-blowing sex you can ever imagine, he will still explore around porn sites, scratch his fly and masturbate without you. And don’t be upset if your guy looks at a hot girl who passes by, just stay calm, caress his inner thigh, look at him with your dreamy eyes, and say this in the most gentle way you can ever muster, “Stop staring at her baby, or I’ll poke your eyes out.” and then flash him your seductive smile. BAM! :)
  9. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him. One of the biggest responsibility of each and every guy is to be a good provider. Not just financially-speaking, but as a man who is a beacon of strong will, authority and strength in his work, to his family, friends and relationship. Give him your 100% support in all his endeavors and make him feel that he’s not alone in all his fights. And believe in the saying “Behind every great man, is a great woman.” To whom would he go to and share his dreams and predicaments except for his partner in life? When he tells you about his dilemma at work or family, you don’t necessarily have to share your insights about it, guys just needs someone to listen to their rants. So give him the understanding that he needs and the love that he deserves because in each success that comes his way, you know you’ll always be a very big part of it.
  10. Give him the space and time to breathe. Every one are facing a stressful day at work from 8 to 9 hours a day, for 5 to 6 days a week, so just like any other normal being, your guy needs a stress-reliever, a time to unwind, relax and free his mind with all the chaos in the corporate world. Yes, he’s happy and content to be with you but he also needs his friends just as we need our girls-gossip-brunch. Let him go out with his friends, grab a couple of drinks with them or even let him go to a strip club from time to time! Or cheer for him during his basketball game, computer game, or even when he gambles. And do try to avoid nagging about what time is he coming home, and trust me, you’ll be his most favorite girl in the world and who knows, maybe you’ll be getting a proposal anytime soon :)

38 thoughts on “10 Things Girls Should Know About Guys

  1. Some advice are really good here … and some truth about men too. I think space and time is very true – and if he likes you .. bring out the good in him.

  2. Kaiceeeeeee !! YOU are my dream woman !! Are you unattached??? I have only 0.00001% of my brains in my head. The other (almost) 10% is elsewhere so I am led to understand ;) LOL (LOTS OF LOVE) Ralph xx

  3. Yes. I really need help Kaicee. The rest of the 10% is focussed on food and blogging (thinks: type of woman who will believe that !!). I have a problem with what to do in the kitchen with this cucumber and my post is really hard to work on tonight. ;)

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